For those who think that arguing
is better than sex is a sport, this article would be of interest because it’s quite methodical. It’s about steelman.
Steelman is the enemy of the strawman and, I think, is a close cousin of devil’s advocate.
First… you must attempt to re-express your opponent’s position so clearly, vividly and fairly that your opponent says “Thanks, I wish I’d thought of putting it that way.” Then, you should list any points of agreement (especially if they are not matters of general or widespread agreement), and third, you should mention anything you have learned from your opponent. Only then are you permitted to say so much as a word of rebuttal or criticism.